Be very careful, these 3 things are signs, psychologists are investigating, your partner is cheating on you

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Here are some of the most common signs that your partner is cheating on you, according to research and expert opinion. 

 But the problem is that sometimes we don't know when we or our partner is really cheating. 


 Fraud is usually difficult to detect because the perpetrator tries to keep it secret. 

 But certainly a man and a woman have a special feeling when a couple has an affair. 

 Infidelity is a real danger that can ruin any relationship. Although in principle everyone should avoid adultery. 

 But the problem is that sometimes we don't know when we or our partner is really cheating. 

 For some people,  serong begins with an emotional relationship, which can appear mainly in friendships, flirting, work relationships, with strangers. 

 In fact, studies have shown that emotional infidelity and online communication are perceived as cheating and therefore feared as physical abuse. 

 We may not cheat at first.

In fact, however, some of these treatments unconsciously prove that we have in fact deceived him.

Here are 3 signs of infidelity we don't recognize, according to research by psychologists

1. Talk to him, not a partner

Who is the first person that comes to mind when you have information to share?

Is it a partner or him?

Essentially, we need to build solid trust in our relationship with our partners.

Come to tell the other party news or just personal information or individual relationship issues, you can cause a rift in the relationship with your partner.

2. Wanting to keep dating him

Do you dress extra, do you wear more makeup, or do you perfume yourself with the desire to talk to her?

If we imagine meeting him in our social circle, it is a sign that we have crossed the line.

It's natural to get someone's attention physically, but we usually know when we're going too far. Be honest with yourself.

Instead of digressing, think about what's going on in your relationship.

Do you feel separated from your partner?

The solution is to talk to your partner about your unmet needs.

3. Keeping secrets or hiding your partner's cat from them

When you communicate with him, do you hide your phone or immediately delete your chat history so your partner doesn't find out?

This is a sign that we are indeed cheating.

Set stronger boundaries. Each partner must determine the limits of their own fidelity as well as within the framework of the same understanding.

Also, we should not agree to behaviors that make us feel uncomfortable, safe and betrayed.

It is also necessary to proactively discuss these issues with your partner to protect and prioritize the relationship.

However, it's worth noting that if you see a partner with the above signs, it doesn't mean they've been cheated on. Your relationship with your partner might be in trouble.

Then it's time to have a heart-to-heart talk with your partner to sort out the awkward situation.